March 11th, 2010

I proposed her and she is torturing me now!! What i've to do?

  • I proposed my co-worker a couple of weeks back. She told me she has got a boy friend and rejected my offer. Even after my proposal she use to speak to me. But all of a sudden she started avoiding me completely so i also kept quite. I was on leave for couple of days. She is taking an advantage of this and creating a bad impression about me with my fellow workers. How can i deal with this? I've great dignity and position. Now i am feeling i am loosing this. One thing is sure, She trapped me to propose her. I mean she herself asked me whether i am in love with her? I told I may be i m not sure. Friends plz help me. Should i quit my job?


  • No, don't quit you job, You need to let her go; Why would you propose to her if she has someone? You want love that bad? Let her go.


  • Do not quit the job.
    Start torturing her whenever you get chance.
    Time is the solution. Everything will come to normal. Take this as a passing cloud. Instead of adopting escapism, just face the problem like a man.



  • Stop over analyzing it, and just forget about her. Don't leave your job just because she rejected your invitation. Next time don't ask a girl out who already has a guy.
    Just laugh it off with the co-workers, and when you go to work today completely be into your work and pay no attention to her at all. After a week no one will even remember this even happened.


  • Don't worry they wont believe her, now you can say, what non sense, I never proposed you, did I ?


  • Before quitting,think a while.Get her out somewhere and talk to her about this.Tell her past is past and to forget everything and ask her not to talk bad about you among the people working over there. Simultaneously impress your Boss and colleagues.Find out whether your colleagues or boss are having grudge upon you.If they dont then continue your work.Otherwise,there is no other way than quitting.Sorry to tell but YOU CANT BE IN A PLACE WHERE THEY ARE HAVING GRUDGE UPON YOU! Ain't I right.ALL THE BEST!


  • Don't get such stupid, u can't leave ur job just b,coz of a girl.
    be a man . first try to conface her politly if see dt understand then do the thing wt she is doing .
    do anything except quiting ur job b,coz it is not easy to get the job.


  • break her back


  • No don't quit your job. Sounds like she is trying to make you uncomfortable, and thats pretty sad because she is acting immature. Try talking to her and tell her that she should respect your friendship and not say what she is saying to your coworkers. And just stay away from her and forget her. Even though you guys aren't together, you still wouldn't want to be with someone like her because she sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do.







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